Did you know one of the stages of a break up is actually making up? Not many would have given this much thought but we’re here to tell you that unless you pay attention to this crucial stage of the magic of making up process, you are setting yourself up for a big fall again.
When T W Jackson released his making up “bible” The Magic Of Making Up, he had enough foresight to realize that while he was laying out a blueprint for people dumped out of a relationship to win back their ex, he also knew that unless he provided a solid section dedicated to maintaining harmony once back together, then it would have been almost pointless in showing people the right path back to their former partner’s door.
So as far as stages of a break up are concerned, maintenance in maintaining harmony in a relation once reconnected is just as important as knowing how to react after you’ve been dumped, the process of winning back your ex and the all important apology.
In this article, we give you six solid tips to use when you win back your ex and maintain solidity in your relationship.
6 Tips To Maintain Harmony In your Relationship
Your ex has taken you back because they see a change in you. The reason you were dumped in the first place may may have been due to your partner simply getting bored with your habits and routine. Here are some of the things you could try to solidify the relationship this time around.
1. Put fun back into your relationship. Remember when you first met. You more than likely spent a lot of time together having having fun. Re-introduce this back into your relationship.
2. While being apart, you may have improved your grooming techniques and the way you dress. Be careful not to abandon these simply because you think the job is done when you get back together.
3. During the reconciliation period, you would have gone out on regular dates again. This ties in with the fun aspect but when you’re re-united, make at least one night a week a date night.
4. Add surprises to your relationship. For example, leave love notes for your partner, send her flowers occasionally or buy him tickets to a football game. Buy them a gift occasionally without there having to be an occasion to do it.
5. Make sure you find up to an hour with each other every day. Really be genuine in wanting to know how your partner’s day was and share your experiences as well.
6. In stages of a break up, the split is usually caused following constant arguing over issues. In your reconciliation phase, avoid dredging up any of these old issues. You’ve both made a fresh start with fresh ideas and plans. Leave the past where it belongs - in the past.
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