It’s day ONE here at the “Marriage and Family Advice Blog for Couples in Yukon” and I’ll attempt to keep this beginning post short, but since it is my introduction of things to come, I’d like to at least lay the ground-work so that you, my friend, will know what you can expect as we blog along the marriage & family highway with each other.First, let’s clear up the purpose I started this blog. OK?

Well, after almost losing my marriage and family 7 years ago and seeing way too many friends and relatives go through terrible divorces,I gazed upon my lovely children and realized that I needed to quit complaining about the state of things and start doing something about it

But what could i do?, I thought to myself.

That is when beginning a web log came to mind in one of those ‘far out man moments’ I felt convicted to assert and commence disspensing about how, with the support of many others, was able to completely turn around my life and reconstruct my loveless, unhappy marriage into the most amazing relationship I could of ever dreamed of. Ending in the concrete foundation that my family is deep seated on, giving my children

  • Shelter
  • Stableness
  • Cheerfulness
  • Determination
  • and Emotional Strength

You see The information superhighway is teeming with information, but the fact is, most of it is not free and the quality is… well questionable to say the least. I wanted to be able to deliver reliable, upfront guidance that has been proven to work for me and could possible work for you!

Family and marriage is not a TV fairytale life is not always happily ever after and leaves no room for selfishness. The direction of marriage and family in today s world is spiraling downwards and the number one reason is boastfulness. Individuals who are not happy and feel they deserve better, need to find themselves or need someone to make them happy… need to do one thing…

Grow Up!

Marriage and family is not an individual affair it involves more the one.For any marriage or family to work it takes a sense that life is not always good, people are not always agreeable and sometimes giving something up for the sake of others is the right thing to do.

So what in the world will you benefit by hanging out at this guidance weblog?

Before I go further, I need to make clear that I am by no means an end all be all expert in the field of marriage and family. I am simply someone who cares and has been through the trenches. I have been to rock bottom and know what it feels like. I am a strong believer that EVERY marriage and family can work but it takes adherence and a mindset that divorce is improper.

Disturbing Divorce Statisitics

  • Percentage of first marriages that end in divorce in 1997: 50%
  • Likelihood of new marriages ending in divorce in 1997: 43%
  • Percentage of married people who reach their 5th, 10th, and 15th anniversaries: 5th: 82%, 10th: 65%, 15th: 52%
  • Median duration of first marriages that end in Males: 7.8 years, Females: 7.9 years
  • Median age at first marriage: Males: 26.9, Females: 25.3
  • Percentage of population that has never married: 24%
  • Percentage of population that is married: 59% (down from 62% in 1990, 72% in 1970)

Again I ask, So what in the world will you benefit by hanging out at this guidance weblog?

My design is to cut to the chase and offer you strategies that will build up your understanding of what marriage is and what family is, the physical, emotion and economical benefits that they bring, how your relationships need to be viewed to make them healthy, the steps that I took in changing my marriage and other ramblings that will offer you encouragement and guidance.

If you decide to hang with me here, I’ll be writing and yapping about anything and everything, as long as it works. I encourage you to visit often and comment as much as you like. This blog is not for me alone it is for everyone out there that values marriage and family and wants to make them work.

Even though this particular blog will focus on strategies Marriage and Family Advice Blog for Couples in Yukon, I may from time-to-time give examples from other areas to demonstrate a strategy or idea. It’s your job to apply the concepts to YOUR particular relationship.

A preview of some of the topics I will be blogging about here are

  • Sex & Love (How they Relate)
  • Communication & Problem Solving
  • Parenting
  • Safety and Bullying
  • Anger Management
  • Free Marriage and Family Resources
  • Homeschool or Not to Homeschool?
  • Family Games
  • and much more!

Please believe this is not a recruiting scheme; I’m not active in any ‘enterprise’, and I do not sell or share names on any of my opt-in lists. I’m simply a worried husband and father and a regular guy.

All that I write here is free. And I do not plan to hold back. I recommend you subscribe to my XML or RSS feed (look for the Feed button on the side panel).

Blog to you in a few mile…

Tags: Marriage and Family, Marriage, Divorce